(Secret Cub Tip: You want to avoid getting the dreaded, “EWWWW” reaction at all costs).
Read her profile and pick out specifics that you can text her about.
My family believes this woman is out to get me, and that I don't need someone twice-married and 16 years older. You need to make sure that a long-term relationship could stand on solid ground.
I tell them we get along well and I enjoy her kids very much. Which means you have lots of information-gathering to do.
You should be talking to your girlfriend about her past. If she's blaming her exes, view it as a danger sign; it means you'll be the next target.
If she has no insight into her own contribution to failure, or refuses to talk about her past, then get out now.
3) Meet and Greet If you get a hit and a nice chat develops, set up a coffee date so you can meet in person. Forever for awhile, can you, a ready, willing and able young guy, step in and be a friend with benefits without getting hurt?
Do this as soon as possible so you can see if there is any chemistry there. 4) Yellow Blinking Light: Slow Down Curves Ahead Your Cougar will probably give you a sign when she is ready to get physical. Stay tuned for Part 2 of this series on Cougar Dating.The odds of a successful remarriage (or cohabitation) on her part are not great, made all the worse by the presence of two children.This is not a commentary on their characters or likability, but an acknowledgement of the fact that pre-existing children vastly complicate new marriages, often around issues of money and discipline. But more, raising kids as a single mom is difficult, no matter how glamorized it is on television.When we are together, we’re together and when we are not, we’re not. I delete great men every day just because they don’t know what I need to hear to say Yes.We don’t meet up very often and that makes it all the more exciting when we are together. That is why you can cruise over to a Cougar dating site like Seeking or Pick Your and be very successful.The truth is that although older women would like to experience a lot more fun and excitement in their life, they do NOT want to have to babysit any young kids (or be reminded of it).