Let me throw out a few scenarios here: You’re vaguely interested in role-play.
The best part is, discussing fantasies almost ALWAYS leads to better sex in person.
Even if you never mention threesomes again (although good luck -- give most straight dudes an inch on threesomes and they’ll take a mile, I’ve noticed), you both know you’ve thought about it, and it’s a turn-on that you could both be thinking about it RIGHT NOW.
The first step of initiating Skype sex is taking your shirt off. In my experience, the pre-coital tension that makes regular sex so much fun doesn’t really hold water online.
It just kind of feels like waiting, and not like, “ babe, I’ve been waiting for this all day,” but more like, “Excuse me, sir, but we ordered our entrees 40 minutes ago, and we were just wondering if they would be out soon, or...?
As for the worst-case scenario: when you confess to a fantasy that isn’t shared, your partner in cyber-crime will not, in fact, slam their laptop shut in repulsion.
Instead, they will probably think it’s hot as fuck that you’re talking about it, and you’ll think it’s hot as fuck that they think it’s hot as fuck. Oh, and if my above list of scenarios terrified you, don’t worry. Think “that thing you do with your [body part] to my [body part].” Mmmmmmm.Now, take all of the prancing and laptop-repositioning you were doing earlier, add in a few zoomed-in shots, pick a favorite fantasy, and mix it all together.Wiggle your ass close to the camera and touch yourself. Also, it can be way easier to bring this stuff up online than face-to-face.Rather than shamefacedly muttering about a facial, you can just send a link to a dirty story or a porn clip and say, “I thought this was kinda hot.” Multiplatform sex for the 21st century! I will say that I’ve only ever done this with people I’ve dated and trusted, but you all know that the Internet is terrifying and that people are surprisingly scummy.